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ABOUT SAN DIEGO BAD INTENTIONS FEMDOM EVENTS

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The Full Story

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At SD Bad Intentions, we believe that thriving in the BDSM and Femdom scene starts with bringing your whole self to the table, your personality, your sense of humor, your passion, and most importantly, your heart. All of these elements brought Miss Melody Pond and Princess Nina to work together on the San Diego Femdom Play Party (SDFemdomPP), founded by Miss Melody Pond in 2019.

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What began as a single event to fill a gap in the San Diego kink community has grown into something far more meaningful: a vibrant, inclusive space where people can explore, connect, and truly be themselves.

In 2021, Melody and Nina reimagined and expanded the vision, leading to the creation of San Diego Bad Intentions Femdom Events. Their shared passion for the Femdom lifestyle and building community has made SD Bad Intentions a cornerstone of Southern California’s BDSM scene. With the addition of Goddess Colette as a co-host, our events and offerings have only continued to grow and thrive.

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Our quarterly themed play parties are designed to inspire creativity and connection, with recent favorites like Carnival of Sin and Eyes Wide Shut. In 2025, we’re thrilled to add two more parties to our calendar with the introduction of a Spring Party and a Fall/Halloween Party.

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For those seeking deeper connections and education, our monthly munches, launched in 2021, provide a casual setting for meeting others and starting or continuing your kink journey. And in 2024, we took a bold step forward by offering educational workshops and intensives, further enriching the community with opportunities to learn and grow.

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At SD Bad Intentions, we are committed to creating a safe space where Female-identifying Dominants can embrace their power and submissives can find fulfillment in their desires. To ensure this, all participants must complete our vetting process, which includes attending a munch and orientation before joining our play parties. This requirement allows us to build trust and foster a welcoming environment for everyone.

Looking ahead, we’re excited to continue evolving and expanding our event offerings, bringing in more incredible educators, and building a stronger presence to support kinksters both locally and beyond. None of this would be possible without you.

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Thank you for being part of this journey, for trusting us to create these spaces, and for helping us make SD Bad Intentions what it is today!

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-SD Bad Intentions 

Miss Melody Pond: Founder/Co-owner/Co-host 

Princess Nina: Co-Owner/Co-host

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